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Protecting Young Children

Statistics show that crime against young children by strangers is rare. Even so, these seven tips can help protect your child:
  • tell your child to avoid talking to people they don’t know when you’re not around
  • make sure your child knows never to walk away with anyone without first telling the person in charge
  • make sure your child understands that they should always tell you if a stranger approaches, and never to keep this secret
  • if your child is travelling alone, tell them to sit near other families on the train or bus
  • if your child has to use a lift – tell them only to use lifts with friends, and not to feel worried about getting out if they are uncomfortable about someone else being in there
  • if your child gets lost, they should ask for help from a police officer, another grown-up with children or someone working at a nearby shop
  • have your children learn their address and telephone number by heart
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10 Rules To Stranger Danger

If you follow these 10 rules, you will always be safe!

Rule #1:

STAY AWAY FROM DANGER, DON’T TALK TO STRANGERS!

Rule #2:

REMEMBER THE ADULTS YOU TRUST, CHECK WITH THEM FIRST YOU MUST!

Rule #3:

IT’S OK TO YELL, THEN GO RUN AND TELL!

Rule #4:

IT’S SAFER WITH TWO, YOUR BUDDY AND YOU!

Rule #5:

THERE’S NOTHING TO SAY, JUST WALK AWAY!

Rule #6:

DON’T GET IN THE CAR, RUN FAST AND FAR!

Rule #7:

IF YOU LEARN YOUR ADDRESS AND PHONE, YOU’LL BE SAFER WHEN YOU’RE ON YOUR OWN!

Rule #8:

ON THE STREET OR IN THE MALL, WALK PROUD, STRONG AND TALL!

Rule #9:

IF YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE LET SOMEONE KNOW, DON’T BE AFRAID TO SAY THE WORD NO!

Rule #10:

DON’T LOSE YOUR COOL, REMEMBER THE RULES!

http://www.fingerprintamerica.com/downloads.asp

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How stranger danger changed the way children play

Closeted in the home or watched over by ‘helicopter’ parents, children lack much of the freedom they had only 50 years ago. What changed? Steve Humphries, who has made a new TV series on the way young people play, charts the rise of stranger danger.

British children’s play has been transformed in the last 100 years. Up to the 1960s there were few children who didn’t spend much of their free time outdoors, playing in the fields, parks, streets, back alleys, old bombsites and local beauty spots.

This play was unsupervised by mum or dad and children were free to go on adventures far from home. Sadly this world of independent child’s play has today largely vanished. One of the important reasons for this decline is the inexorable rise of stranger danger and child abduction in modern Britain.
The impact this had on children’s play is vividly recalled by many growing at the time.It was in the mid 1960s that this new threat to children’s freedom really took hold of the popular imagination. Child murderers Ian Brady and Myra Hindley helped change the nation’s attitude towards children’s outdoors play. Their sadistic crimes became one of the most sensational television news stories of the 60s.

“I still remember the feelings of terror at seeing Myra Hindley’s face on the news, there was a kind of loss of innocence, you didn’t feel safe after that,” says Lancashire boy Steve Wakefield, born in 1955. “Up until then parents didn’t worry too much about where you went and what time you came home. But afterwards they wanted to keep you in the street and if you weren’t home by the time it was getting dark they were really concerned and you got into trouble with them.”

The fear that it was unwise to allow children to play outdoors without parental supervision was heightened by some other major social changes that were increasing dangers on the streets. A huge rise in car ownership and road traffic proved a big threat to children’s safety and to the way working class communities used their street as a playground.

Fat, angry, isolated

There is little doubt that parental fears of stranger danger have been an important factor that has helped drive a generation of children indoors. Recent surveys show that most children spend much more of their free time playing indoors than outdoors – a complete reversal of the play habits of children in the 1950s and before.

 If you were losing you’d go in to Mum but she had no sympathy and say sort it out yourself – 10 minutes later you’d be out on the streets again
Laura Hopkins

Growing affluence and the child-centred society has certainly not brought with it a richer outdoor play experience for children. The physical and psychological consequences of this lost world of children’s play are now beginning to be felt, most obviously with the well documented increase in child obesity, child aggression and the isolation of children who now spend most of their free time indoors.

Quite apart from the health benefits of children spending free time playing running, chasing and hiding games in the streets and fields, independent play also taught them important social skills. There were inevitably disagreements and upsets over who were the winners and losers of all the games, but resolving them without parental interference helped the children grow up.

As Laura Hopkins, 60, from Manchester remembers: “If you were losing you’d go in and complain to Mum but she had no sympathy for you because she’d know it was just a bit of a disagreement, she’d say sort it out yourself. So 10 minutes later you’d be out on the streets again and you learned a lesson from that.”

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/8399749.stm

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What Is A Stranger?

Defining what a stranger is

Perhaps you have already talked to children about the danger of ‘strangers’. But does your child actually understand what is meant by a ‘stranger’? When children’s charity Kidscape interviewed 500 children aged between five and eight, they found that while nine out of ten knew they should never go with a stranger, there was a lot of confusion about what a stranger actually looks like or does. Six out of ten of the children questioned thought a stranger couldn’t be a woman and most described a stranger as a sinister-looking man with dark glasses and a beard.

It’s vitally important your child knows that a stranger is anyone that they do not know. They can be male, female, young, old – any person unknown to your child who approaches them for no reason (unless your child is obvious distress, has had an accident or is lost) could pose a danger. It doesn’t matter how smartly dressed they are or how polite and well-meaning they appear – any person your child does not know, who approaches them or tries to offer them a lift should be ignored and your child should quickly walk or run away from them.

 

Basic stranger danger rules your child should know

  • Never accept gifts or sweets from a stranger
  • Never accept a lift in a car from a stranger
  • Never go anywhere with a stranger
  • Never go off on your own without telling a parent or trusted adult
  • Never go up to a car to give directions – keep away so that no one can get hold of you and you can run away
  • Always tell a trusted adult if you have been approached by a stranger
  • Remember the Yell, Run, Tell rule – it’s okay to run and scream if you find yourself in danger. Get away from the source of danger as fast as you can.
  • If you find yourself in danger always run towards shops or other busy places with lots of people
  • If you think that you are being followed, go into a shop or knock on the door of a house and ask for help
  • Never play in dark or lonely places
  • Stay with your group of friends – never wonder off on your own
  • Never agree to do a job for someone you don’t know in return for money – they may be trying to trick you
  • Make sure your parents know where you are going and when you will be back. If your plans change be sure to tell your parents

http://www.netmums.com/lifestyle/house-and-home/essential-safety-for-kids/essential-safety-for-kids-stranger-danger

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Top Tips To Stop Stangers


Stranger Danger Checklist

· A stranger is anyone you don’t know. You can’t tell the good guys from the bad guys by how they look. You are responsible for keeping yourself safe when you’re by yourself.
· You are responsible for taking care of yourself. You are not responsible for taking care of grownups. Adults who need help should go to another adult.
· Instinct is nature’s way of talking to you – listen to that inner voice.
· Have a “password” that is not shared with ANYONE outside your family. When someone, even somebody well known, asks or tells the child that they are to go with them because “Your Mom or Dad said…” ask for the password. DON’T GO unless they know the password.

Stranger Collage

Clip magazine pictures of a variety of people. Take photographs of students and staff members — to be photocopied or scanned into a computer and printed. Have children sort the pictures into two groups: “people we know” and “people we don’t know”. Write each of these headings on a separate piece of construction paper. Students glue pictures under appropriate headings.

http://www.childfun.com/index.php/activity-themes/miscellaneous/715-safety-activity-theme.html?start=9

All About Me cards

height, weight, color of hair, eyes, make fingerprint….write child’s signature….or they can if they know how (Do like on a post card or something like that)

Little Red Riding Hood

We use the story of Little Red Riding Hood to help teach stranger danger. We change the story because we have the children act it out. The wolf locks Grannie in the closet. Wolf chases Red around a table. Woodsman hears, enters and chases wolf away. Props: a red hooded cape for Red (made out of a red bathrobe), Grannie: nite-cap and shaw, wolf: wolf-hat (took a wolf bedroom slipper, cut and hot glued onto a baseball cap), woodsman: flannel shirt.

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Have You Taught Your Child About Strangers??

Lures

There is nothing more wonderful than the freedom, adventure and fun of childhood. We value our own memories of childhood adventures and exploration. Yet, today, it seems more than ever that we should be aware of where our children are, who is around them and teaching them how to keep themselves from danger.

Here is a video of a stranger coaxing a child into his car!!

http://salt.hubpages.com/hub/Protecting-our-children-child-safety-and-techniques-relating-to-stranger-danger

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The Password

The Password

Anybody can just walk up to a child in police uniform and claim that their mum and dad sent them. Anyone can come to the school gates and claim that they’re your mum or dads ‘friend’ who was sent to come and pick them up.

But how do you really know whether they did or not?

There are many ways to keep your child safe. The best way would to always be the one who picks your child up from school, but who can guarantee that?

A very good way to keep your child safe when you need to use someone else who they may not know or remember, would be to have a family password. Family password is a word that is memorable to both parents and children, something like a pets name or a favourite place. Just something memorable that when they ask for the password they know what the answer is going to be.

STRANGER: Hi Jonny, Im a Policeman (shows ‘badge’) your mum’s okay but she needs you come with me

JONNY: Whats the password?

STRANGER: Your mum never gave me a password but please come with me.

JONNY: NOO YOUR NOT MY DADDY!!! (child runs away to busy place shouting loudly)

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Kids Aware

Never…… go with a stranger
Never…… take things from a stranger
Never…… get in a car with a stranger
Never…… go off on your own.
Stranger Danger 'tick'
Always play with other children

It’s safer and more fun to be with friends – but make sure you tell your parents or carer where you are.

If someone scares you, or tries to touch you in ways that make you feel uncomfortable….

'yell' tell them ‘No’ or ‘Stop’
'Run' get home as quick as you can. If you can’t get home, go somewhere you know will be safe, like your school or a police station
'tell' tell your parent or carer or someone you can trust right away
How loud can you…. 'How loud can you yell ?!'

make sure anyone who scares you finds out!

Remember: you can’t tell a good guy from a bad guy just by looking at them. If a stranger frightens you go home and tell your parents or carer right away.

If you can’t go home, tell someone you can trust, like:

  • a police officer in uniform
  • your teacher
  • a grown up you know well

Source: http://www.gloucestershire.police.uk/kids_aware/3.html

Shudokan Black Belt Academy – Keeping Kids Safe – Aikido Nottingham

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Child Abduction – Reunite International

reunite started life in 1986 as reunite National Council for Abducted Children, a parent support network formed by parents all trying to navigate their way through the legal minefield of international parental child abduction.  We registered as a charity in 1990 and over the years evolved and developed into an information and resource centre.  In 1999 we changed our name toreunite International Child Abduction Centre and are now recognised as the leading UK charity specialising in international parental child abduction and the movement of children across international borders.

We operate the only telephone advice line in the UK offering practical, impartial advice, information and support to parents, family members, and guardians who have had their child abducted, as well as parents and guardians who may have abducted their child.

We also provide advice, information and support to parents who fear their child may be at risk of abduction and assist and advise in international contact issues and cases of ´permission to remove´.
Here at reunite we are committed to raising the profile of international parental child abduction on the international stage.  We regularly organise and attend conferences across the world to promote the work of reunite, raise awareness of international parental child abduction, and foster close working relationships with governmental departments and non government organisation´s, to better enable quick resolution in cases of child abduction, that focus on the best interests of children.  We also work closely with the Ministry of Justice, the Foreign & Commonwealth Office and the Home Office and provide specialist training for government departments, lawyers, academics, the police, and others who have a professional interest in international parental child abduction.

  
reunite also administers The All Party Parliamentary Group on Child Abduction   
We can also offer parents a truly specialist mediation service, born out of research undertaken by the reunite research unit.  Parental child abduction was always believed to be too contentious an issue to benefit from mediation.  However, our initial research, and subsequent practice, has shown that with the help of our specialist mediators parents can resolve their issues and come to amicable agreements that best meet the needs of their family outside of a court setting.The charity is part funded by the Ministry of Justice and the Foreign & Commonwealth Office.  We also receive funding for specific projects from charities and trusts, as well as raising independent funds. 

Shudokan Black Belt Academy – Helping keep children safe – Aikido Nottingham
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Child Abduction Within the Family

Though no parent likes to think it there are some children who are abducted by their own family members. These children are usually abducted by one of their parents after a separation or divorce, and recently there has been a rise in the number of family abductions that result in the child being taken out of the UK and to another country. While child abduction within the family does occur, many parents remain unaware of this type of abduction. Read on for answers to frequently asked questions regarding child abduction within the family.

What is Child Abduction within the Family?

Child abduction within the family occurs when a relative takes a child without the permission of the custodial parents or the courts. Most often this relative is a parent who has not been granted guardianship of their child. Though this type of abduction is still a kidnapping, rarely is the criminal law applied in such cases.

How Can the Guardian Parent Get the Child Back?

While child abduction within the family is a crime, anecdotal evidence suggests that the guardian parent will need to motivate the courts to return their child. That is to say that the guardian parent will have to contact and use the courts in their particular case, the courts themselves will not likely start proceedings otherwise. Guardian parents who are interested in bringing their children back to their homes will want to start sooner rather than later, however, while the courts will still believe it is in the child’s best interest to be returned to the home of the guardian parent.

Why are International Abductions within the Family Increasing?

Statistics from international child abduction charity suggest that international child abductions within the family have increased by 87% since 1995. The reasons for this may be many, but it is believed that a variety of factors have made international travel and residence much easier for most Britons. Reasons for this increase likely include:

  • A rise in the number of parents who break up with each other, including through divorce.
  • A rise in the number of Britons marrying foreign nationals (meaning that these partners will become parents with origins and possibly residences in other countries).
  • Cheaper international travel options, which allows more parents to purchase passage for themselves and their children to other countries.
  • Greater familiarity with immigration laws, which means that more Britons are aware of where and how they can work in other countries, particularly those in the European Union.

 

How Can Parents Guard their Children Against an International Abduction?

There are many things that a guardian parent can do to prevent their ex-partner from taking their children across international boundaries. Guardian parents can:

  • Obtain a court order as to the custody or residence of their children. If the child ordinarily resides in Scotland or was abducted from Scotland, a court order is necessary for it to be considered an abduction.
  • Prevent passports from being issued for their children. You will likely need an order of the court as well as this request in writing.
  • Tell the police of your suspicions.
  • Request a Port Warning or Port Alert in urgent/imminent circumstances. Only the police are able to issue such an alert, and only when there is good reason to believe that the child may be taken out of the country.
  • Contact a solicitor to discuss their personal situation and transmit this information to the partner they believe may be thinking of abducting their children.

 

Child abduction within the family is a crime much like any other type of child abduction. If you fear that your child may be abducted by another family member, take necessary precautions to keep him/her safe, and if the worst does happen report the abduction immediately. Don’t hesitate, or you may regret the wait later.

By www.safekids.co.uk

 

Shudokan Black Belt Academy – Keeping Children Safe – Nottingham Aikido

 

 

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